tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post2740997362264735418..comments2023-06-22T04:20:49.280-07:00Comments on happy being trevy: healing in pieces (until the fog lifts)Danielle http://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-31416863927807412872010-05-26T17:03:31.209-07:002010-05-26T17:03:31.209-07:00Aw. Sorry, Elaine. Looks like we're both norma...Aw. Sorry, Elaine. Looks like we're both normal. In our own kinda way. :) <br /><br />xoxo<br /><br />...danielleDanielle https://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-4355457821754796912010-05-26T12:01:51.927-07:002010-05-26T12:01:51.927-07:00I wanted to respond to this when I first read it b...I wanted to respond to this when I first read it but I couldn't. Because it scared me. I always wondered if the fog would be lifted...I just didn't realize you felt the same way. And it scares me. Because I always thought you were so much more present. You write from the heart. I can feel your emotions through your writing. And to read that you wonder if the fog will ever be lifted in this life...well...that breaks my heart. But, on the other hand, it makes me feel more normal.<br /><br />You making me feel more normal...is that normal ;)Sophie's Story by Elainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00415731740298071423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-17896226290194829022010-05-20T17:05:12.741-07:002010-05-20T17:05:12.741-07:00Ken...I have a friend who says you're the guy ...Ken...I have a friend who says you're the guy me...and visa versa. :) <br /><br />Jen & Holly...or you could always say what my mom said after reading this post...and I quote...<br /><br />"I'm never reading your stupid blog again! It's too depressing!" <br /><br />She makes me laugh...<br /><br />...dDanielle https://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-75565943010481140902010-05-20T14:51:32.156-07:002010-05-20T14:51:32.156-07:00Wow, Jen, I like that. I logged in and didn't...Wow, Jen, I like that. I logged in and didn't know what to say, but knew I wanted to say...something. <br /><br />We've been through a lot of the same things before, but we're on different ends now. I couldn't begin to know how you must be trying to sort this out emotionally. I would like to hope Jen is right. <br /><br />Love you sweetie!Hollihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00535016211470087504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-4371288481857191162010-05-19T05:29:08.433-07:002010-05-19T05:29:08.433-07:00The sun will start seeping in slowly. It may only ...The sun will start seeping in slowly. It may only be for a minute or two, here or there, but eventually it starts showing up more and more. Then one day you realize, it's the fog that's peeping in here or there and the sun is the prevalent feature.<br /><br />You are 6 months out. You can't expect it to chagne overnight. It's hard, but give it time.JSmith5780https://www.blogger.com/profile/16954759123115546248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-40084004774925586022010-05-18T17:27:17.151-07:002010-05-18T17:27:17.151-07:00You have described, in an eloquence that the harsh...You have described, in an eloquence that the harshness of my writing style always fails to, what I have been thinking about these last few weeks. <br /><br />The only emotions I seem to be able to feel are bad. And even those are fuzzy. Who better than your own wife to look you right in the eye and say 'You are more Dead than Alive these days.'<br /><br />I feel like I have to say that saying 'I know how you feel' is a dis-service to our connection, to ALL of our connections between parents watching their kids endure the worst possible things.<br /><br />But yeah...I get it. Totally.blogzillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08268388544631653375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-55863250928985844962010-05-18T15:25:38.556-07:002010-05-18T15:25:38.556-07:00I just hate feeling fuzzy. I miss being able to re...I just hate feeling fuzzy. I miss being able to remember what happened yesterday. Or to laugh til' I cried. Not the other way around! <br /><br />Although can you believe I didn't cry at all the whole time we were in Detroit for the surgery? Isn't that just bizarre? <br /><br />I don't know. <br /><br />I should confess, though, that I am PMSing. Sooooo... <br /><br />Thanks, girls. Your kind heart felt words, thoughts and prayers are special to me. <br /><br />...danielleDanielle https://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-26708245476407431072010-05-18T14:52:31.710-07:002010-05-18T14:52:31.710-07:00Wow, that's about all I can say. There are so ...Wow, that's about all I can say. There are so many cliche things that could be said to try to make you feel better, but I think you know all of those. You know all of the scriptures and all of the platitudes. All I can say is cling to God for dear life and in God's time and in His own way the fog will lift. I've been following Trevy for a while and I will continue to pray for him and for you.A mothernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-31762511242640713232010-05-18T09:41:35.390-07:002010-05-18T09:41:35.390-07:00wow..such raw,and deep emotions there.
even tho...wow..such raw,and deep emotions there. <br /><br />even though our little ones have led different paths in all of this. none the less, the emotions are there and i think they always will be. maybe in time...lots and lots of time, things will be as we would like them when it comes to how we feel.<br /><br />i totally get what you mean by the fog and feeling so numb. not sure what led to it, or if we will ever fully be able to return to the sunny days. i often feel like a body that is just "here." i have moments when i can be happy with kylie's new accomplishments, but lots of feelings of blah and just being in a daze of sorts. <br /><br />yeah, i totally don't feel whole and it's like i'm not living, i'm more or less just going through the motions. i don't feel like i am always consciously thinking about what is in kylie's future...but on some level, it's always there just clouding over everything. <br /><br />wishing all of your pieces begin to heal quicker and fit together on the first try. <br /><br />sending love, hugs, and prayers,<br />jodyMJStumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05506100079795141155noreply@blogger.com