tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post2918283598638789014..comments2023-06-22T04:20:49.280-07:00Comments on happy being trevy: needed to be remindedDanielle http://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-7715040817012113892010-01-16T18:29:59.135-08:002010-01-16T18:29:59.135-08:00Your friend here is very, very wise....Be sure and...Your friend here is very, very wise....Be sure and keep listening to her ....<br /><br />Sometimes it is trial and error, but you know your boy....<br /><br />It WILL be OK....<br /><br />CyndiColbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05100340319951092104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-52574347551064923792010-01-11T19:15:38.420-08:002010-01-11T19:15:38.420-08:00My son goes to school and daycare. He has picked u...My son goes to school and daycare. He has picked up way worse habits from daycare than he has in his Life Skills class.<br /><br />It is hard, and I have questioned myself a lot but I have fought and fought and fought for what I feel is best for my little man.<br /><br />You are a Mom, you will do the same.kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17987700142247888708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-30438844971212481862010-01-10T15:48:25.550-08:002010-01-10T15:48:25.550-08:00I've made a lot of wrong choices because I did...I've made a lot of wrong choices because I didn't know any better. <br /><br />1) Didn't go to the ER when she was puking up a storm even though it seemed weird. It was seizures.<br />2) Believed the doctor when she said it was just a tummy bug.<br />3) Believed the doctor the second time she said it was a tummy bug.<br />4) Didn't scream loud enough three months into the tummy bug.<br />5) Told EI that I didn't think she was delayed but that she just wasn't getting enough awake time because of the tummy bugs.<br /><br />But for all of the wrong choices, I have made some great choices. And I have constantly changed direction when I saw it was a wrong choice.<br /><br />We do our best and hope or pray or both that it is good enough. <br /><br />There are many different grades of "special". Some of the kids are there because they couldn't hear and got tubes in their ears. Some are there for autism. Some are there for Downs syndrome. Some are there because they did not develop due to abuse or neglect. Somehow or other, their strengths will bring out the best in each other. They have a lot to learn from one another. "Normal" is not the only role model. There are a lot of "normal" kids you would not want Trevy learning from.Sineadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-84931178236272975932010-01-09T18:18:22.323-08:002010-01-09T18:18:22.323-08:00I have no doubt that whatever you decide will be r...I have no doubt that whatever you decide will be right for Trevor. <br /><br />And if you do indeed find whatever initial class isn't working, you have the freedom of trying the other direction to see if that is better for his learning. <br /><br />Your children couldn't have asked for a better mom, and God couldn't have asked for a better mother for His children.Adestahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08255048845212923176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-68194210511561882382010-01-08T19:36:01.496-08:002010-01-08T19:36:01.496-08:00Sometimes it feel like SUCH a heavy burden--the de...Sometimes it feel like SUCH a heavy burden--the destiny of your special needs child. I knwo what you mean--it really does sometimes feel like it's all on you. I've got no words on wisdom on this one--only empathy.Katyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02189007616883663434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-55832740312316546382010-01-08T16:27:20.982-08:002010-01-08T16:27:20.982-08:00He's such a little charmer. Trevor is sure to...He's such a little charmer. Trevor is sure to find a way to fit in either way. He is one amazing little boy. <br /><br />~Miranda's momRobin @ Blommihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13201217508336056387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-70577359404076111902010-01-08T14:53:06.185-08:002010-01-08T14:53:06.185-08:00Oh Danielle...have you been to my blog lately?
......Oh Danielle...have you been to my blog lately?<br />...sounds as if we both need to let go, trust God, and stop trying to carry the weight of what seems like unbearable decisions....altho mine has been made, I am just worried of the repercussions, even tho I feel like God has clearly shown me the path to take! <br /><br />Yes, we can make the wrong choices, but He can deliver us, and our choices,and our boys...it is not up to us to make the right decisions as we quake in fear, white knuckled...but rather to simply choose God,let go and then trust.<br /><br />(I know, I too need to take my own advice too, ughhhh!)<br /><br />thoughts and prayers are with you sweetie!<br /><br />"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding; but His, in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your path straight"<br /><br />proverbs 3:5-6Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12469385508031005419noreply@blogger.com