tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post3289989651796870988..comments2023-06-22T04:20:49.280-07:00Comments on happy being trevy: do me a favor?Danielle http://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-33514099292289194092010-03-25T18:15:35.160-07:002010-03-25T18:15:35.160-07:00Yes, you can certainly demand more therapy with a ...Yes, you can certainly demand more therapy with a new IEP at any time....This might be an interesting "test"...To see if they mean what they say....We know YOU do!<br /><br />The "fight" must always be tempered with "peace"...If I had been in "fight mode" for 25 years, well, Colby would be an orphan for sure....<br /><br />It is a delicate balance...And you are already there...<br /><br />Cyndi<br /><br />PS: Sorry I didn't read this BEFORE the fact...But y'all are ALWAYS in my prayers!Colbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05100340319951092104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-47442930366130194192010-03-25T05:04:09.442-07:002010-03-25T05:04:09.442-07:00It's my experience that prayers don't work...It's my experience that prayers don't work in reverse time. ;) <br /><br />So being late I pray for extended peace. <br /><br />As much as I understand Mike's will to continue the fight, I agree with you that the need for peace is a strong counter. <br /><br />Also agreeing with Nathan's Mom on approach to the schools. I'm sure you've heard this before, but therapy provided by schools has different intent than that of a medical provider. The difference is not always clear when the child is young, but will all too quickly become apparent. <br /><br />More therapy time is not always better, and esp if it must be 'fought for'. There are definite down sides to fighting with a school district. Like she said, you can pull out the guns if you need to. <br /><br />Peace, BarbaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-79709512481946598172010-03-24T23:27:17.332-07:002010-03-24T23:27:17.332-07:00Wow...the emotion you laid out in this post was fe...Wow...the emotion you laid out in this post was felt to the core...You have had to make decisions and contemplate things no parent should have to make.<br /><br />I obviously am late in your prayer request BUT...<br /><br />God ultimately wants us to trust and surrender to Him...its called FAITH...<br />Trevy is His child-you were chosen for this amazing little boy...God makes NO mistakes...<br />Place your fears, your worries...place Trevy at the feet of Jesus...then be really patient, look for his providence in your life...in T's life...He won't disappoint! <br /><br />So hard...trust me - I know...BUT...<br />You will feel HIS PEACE, overcome you... entirely...and that is exactly what I will be praying for...<br /><br />Jesus can slay and conquer any/everything!<br /><br />Sending love and hugs my friendDebbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12469385508031005419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-69483766698866378472010-03-24T19:33:40.854-07:002010-03-24T19:33:40.854-07:00I had an IEP meeting today too, at the exact same ...I had an IEP meeting today too, at the exact same time! I read your post right before I left and it helped me go with a peaceful mentality. I feel the same way as you do! I am always trigger happy - but want to believe in them. In a way it's better to believe that they have Trevor's best interest at heart, and that they will do their best for him. Then, if you have proof otherwise, the guns can come out. At least that's my strategy now, thanks to your post :-)PrayforNathan.orghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12226373977189001664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-74012047480010463762010-03-24T14:28:41.399-07:002010-03-24T14:28:41.399-07:00Thanks for the support all. Wendy...I accidentally...Thanks for the support all. Wendy...I accidentally rejected your comment! But I did get it...<br /><br />Mike...it can't be all war all the time. Otherwise I might shrivel up and die. The peace I want isn't the kind the rolls over and play dead either...I just need to feel that peace that I'm doing the right thing. For Trevy.<br /><br />Overall the meeting went really well. I didn't push for more OT or PT. But that's because I was assured that at any time if they or I feel he needs more...it will be added to the IEP. Call me crazy...but I'm going to trust them. And he will be getting speech daily. Which was my biggest worry. <br /><br />Anyway...I'm bushwhacked now. And I haven't made dinner yet...hooray. Then again...maybe it'll be Chinese tonight? <br /><br />...danielleDanielle https://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-54461424748558713572010-03-24T11:49:04.830-07:002010-03-24T11:49:04.830-07:00I'm a bit unclear why you want "peace&quo...I'm a bit unclear why you want "peace" when dealing with governmental officials, like for school. They have forms, and checkboxes, and lists.<br /><br />If you don't fight for Trevor, they won't.<br /><br />Keep the same fire for the IEP. This peace you speak of is over-rated.Marissa's Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10886161065528812876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-3580176500999418262010-03-24T10:55:59.684-07:002010-03-24T10:55:59.684-07:00look out, prayers coming your way!
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jodylook out, prayers coming your way!<br /><br />love,<br />jodyMJStumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05506100079795141155noreply@blogger.com