tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post8650373535020852962..comments2023-06-22T04:20:49.280-07:00Comments on happy being trevy: so shoot meDanielle http://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-82013484245221122592010-02-01T09:43:44.974-08:002010-02-01T09:43:44.974-08:00Transition time:-( I think reality hits you in th...Transition time:-( I think reality hits you in the face when you see what the other kids are doing and find out all the wonderful things you see are not quite as wonderful when they are in a report (or verbally referenced by an educator) as seriously delayed. Seeing a lot of <1% on a report is not encouraging and doesn't make sense when I see what Ryan can do. So many kids seem to be worse off. How can his scores possibly be so low?<br /><br />It's ok to be there for awhile, but I always focus on the other side of how bad it could have been to put it back into perspective. At some point, we will all get to acceptance. It's just hard to identify what we are accepting when the future is still so uncertain.<br /><br />Hang it there. {{{{hugs}}}}<br /><br />ErinAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-70211043719565584542010-01-31T07:13:40.963-08:002010-01-31T07:13:40.963-08:00I'll bring the guns and we can just shoot each...I'll bring the guns and we can just shoot each other in the kneecaps. Pretty clear that you and I are in Same Wavelength Land these days. Misery, oh how that fickle beeyatch LOVES company.<br /><br />You really didn't have to find words or say anything in your comment to me. You said exactly what you needed to here.<br /><br />Hugs re-routed, on their way.blogzillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08268388544631653375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-80774470046575453242010-01-30T21:26:43.654-08:002010-01-30T21:26:43.654-08:00Oh my sweet interblogging friend...it's okay t...Oh my sweet interblogging friend...it's okay to feel all these emotions and you wouldn't be normal or whole if you didn't. Your heart hurts. <br />That's allowed. My gawd, that's more than allowed!<br />You have every right to your feelings and I'm so proud of you that you were able to express them here. Too often we mom's try to portray this image of total strength and optimism...which would be lovely, but just not realistic. Ya gotta feel it. Even when it hurts.<br />Many hugs to you...many hugs and a lovely latte with a shot of double espresso! And a side of ice cream!<br />MargoMrs. Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02626193534014237894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-48522794065593622762010-01-30T19:50:00.639-08:002010-01-30T19:50:00.639-08:00My life is perfect and wonderful and fabulous in e...My life is perfect and wonderful and fabulous in every way. Oh wait, that's just the life I imagined. <br /><br />Here's the problem. When we think about miracles they are always perfect and cute and wonderful. We never think of miracles being compromises. Miracles and magic wands go together in our minds. <br /><br />We learn about miracles in the bible but biblical miracles are snapshots in time. The blind can see, the lame can walk, the water is wine, the dead are risen. We don't see Lazarus a week after he was brought back to life getting on Mary and marthas nerves. We don't see the collective hangovers of the guests at the wedding feast after drinking more wine than would normally be at a wedding, we don't see if the blind man is so excited until he sees what his wife looks like for the very first time. In the moment, everything is the perfect miracle. In reality a miracle shifts the struggle and makes the goal seem nearer but the struggle must continue. <br /><br />I think I might be lecturing. If it seems that way then delete this post. I know the pain you feel cause I have been there too. It's not easy. It won't be easy. There doesn't seem to be an easy button for this. And it is exhausting. You just muddle through cause there is no other choice.Sineadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-49440086882855579172010-01-30T17:37:25.310-08:002010-01-30T17:37:25.310-08:00As "Noah's Mom" said. I could have ...As "Noah's Mom" said. I could have totally written this post...if I could even manage to get my thoughts together enough. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, even when they aren't happy and upbeat. :)The Blatchford Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16302186229041349287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-25676209578754780592010-01-30T14:32:59.879-08:002010-01-30T14:32:59.879-08:00Bless you for your honesty. I should just "c...Bless you for your honesty. I should just "copy and paste" your blog to mine. I can't seem to get it together enough to even post anything right now. Maybe it's in the air...I feel the same as you do. Just not feeling good right now and feel even more guilty because there is always someone out there who has it worse. The tears keep flowing and the yelling isn't any better. BUT no one said you can't or shouldn't have these feelings and by all means have them! Don't feel guilty girl! They are totally legit! Big hugs to you! Maybe these funks we are in will be gone soon! I keep hoping...Noah's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04701210698627810443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-44727807513514661012010-01-30T14:00:15.083-08:002010-01-30T14:00:15.083-08:00What else can I say but that I know EXACTLY how yo...What else can I say but that I know EXACTLY how you are feeling. I love you for writing this post. It is so honest and pure. <br /><br />Guess what...today is exactly 8 months of seizure freedom for Sophie. It's been 8 months!!! I can't believe it. It doesn't feel like it has been that long. And yet sometimes I have to remind myself that it really isn't that long. Considering the fact that she had almost half her brain removed. But she is getting better. Each and every day. And some days it feels easier than others. Some days are full of happiness and hopes. Some days are not.<br /><br />One day at a time...Sophie's Story by Elainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00415731740298071423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-15838904403486815352010-01-30T13:44:54.936-08:002010-01-30T13:44:54.936-08:00how is it that you have a post that sums up what i...how is it that you have a post that sums up what i am feeling...have been feeling, and just can't seem to find the words to express it all.<br /><br />yeah, i wonder a lot about how i'm not quite wired to handle all of this and be what i need to be a mom and get through all that we have been through.<br /><br />i know we are blessed and have come along way from where we were and where we could be. there are times like now where i lose sight of all that and have fear, anger, sadness, and every other not so positive emotion because of everything. <br /><br />the latest news of kylie just presents new fears and worries. im just really sick and tired of going through this stuff, and want so much for it to be done. i so deeply want the more normal-like stuff, not having to jump through hoops and trying to figure how well we can turn things into being as close to normalcy as we can.<br /><br />then again, what really is normal...what i am really looking for. i love kylie how she is and how silly, and sweet she is....just can't help but wish this all wasn't part of her journey and ours.<br /><br />so yeah..maybe just shoot me too, cause im in the boat of pissy as well.<br /><br />sending hugs, prayers, and a dose of smiles for us all.<br /><br />jodyMJStumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05506100079795141155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-85149334527333883582010-01-30T13:24:01.413-08:002010-01-30T13:24:01.413-08:00wish we lived closer...we could be grinchy togethe...wish we lived closer...we could be grinchy together.<br /><br />hugsDebbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12469385508031005419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-64515688112236447492010-01-30T13:14:40.304-08:002010-01-30T13:14:40.304-08:00Thanks, luv.
Thoroughly enjoy your happy time!
...Thanks, luv. <br /><br />Thoroughly enjoy your happy time! <br /><br />xoxo<br /><br />...dDanielle https://www.blogger.com/profile/04484341169494632974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2600278351249979209.post-52469534144819158292010-01-30T13:12:30.473-08:002010-01-30T13:12:30.473-08:00I dunno what to say.
I'm having an 'up'...I dunno what to say.<br />I'm having an 'up' time, but know that there will be down times ahead, as all this sinks in.<br /><br />I hope by then, you are back on the up and can give me a good shake and put me back on my feet.<br /><br />There is Progress, and progress is Good.<br /><br />(I don't have such faith as yours but hope that yours keeps you strong.)<br /><br />kt xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com