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maybe it’s time to explore part I

  The past two years have been a doozy.   September 2012 Trevor had his first dizzy-spell-chased-by-a-single-vomit episode.  When you have a child with catastrophic epilepsy it’s easy to blame seizures for everything.  There’s this doctor saying that goes – when you hear hooves look for horses not zebras.  I have the zebra child so this doesn’t ring quite as true for me.  I know this.  So I try really hard not to fall into that trap.  Which is why the first time it happened I decided to convince myself it was a tummy bug.  When he had another episode a couple weeks later I took him to the pediatrician.   “It’s that time of year,” they said.   By December I knew something was desperately wrong.  He continued to have these intermittent weird episodes which involved loss of balance, speech slurring, eyes bulging and finally a single vomit followed by intense drowsiness.  Beyond the dizzy spells he was having uncountab...

randomnings

  I (occasionally) *heart* Speech Delay Like when Trevy calls his high tops high heels .   *****   Bristel and I had some alone time in the car after dropping Tobin off at his engineering class. The conversation inevitably went to romance. Because clearly that's what 8 year old girls think about.   Bristel randomly broke the silence with a sigh: Sometimes I think I may never find a husband. Me: Well, honey, it's better to wait for the right guy rather than settle for the wrong one. Bristel: That's a good point. (pause and then giggle) Daddy looked so silly in those circle glasses he used to wear! Did you think he looked silly even though you married him? Me: They were pretty silly! Buuuuuuut...your dad made me laugh. So that balanced that out. Bristel: I have really high expectations, I think. Me after choking on the fact that she's EIGHT: Well, what are your top five expectations? Bristel: He has to love Trevor. He has to love God. He has to love me. And...